It's not that they do not like it, it's that they do not truly understand it and are resisting it's newness and novelty; that doesn't make it any easier, does it?
Many believe that humans are self serving by nature, and this may be true. It is also true that some relationships are sought. Why do we seek these relationships; to share? oh, and remember there are motives on both sides! Have A Great Day! ;-)
It is known that we all seek to learn who we are, and all do so at different times in our lives. In this, I ask, do our jobs define us or do we define them? Is there more to life than your work, and do you do those things?
Sometimes I find myself content, work completed, paid well, and complimented on a job well done; then it never fails, someone wakes me up or the alarm goes off!
Relationships are peculiar occurrences. They never work out the way you want them to, start on their own with the first interaction, even if unsought, and they "never" end; they only "change"!
If a person normally avoids interacting with you and now wants to because they need help, should you interact with them; should you help them? In a perfect world, these would not be such good questions, or a valid ones!
You sometimes forget the good that people do, but you never forget the bad; why is that? Of course, it does not help that they do bad things all the time!