Experience is active participation, practice, and evaluation, over time, via incidents and activities; it is not something that can be acquired passively.
Those who have determined that they will neither adapt nor adjust to their current situation will find themselves out of it soon enough; and, not to their desired end. 😐
By now, I sure you have realized that it is always, easier to lose hold of an achievement, than it is to acquire that same achievement; mind your grip.
We are physical beings made up of chemicals, which, in turn, are made up of molecules, which, in turn, are made up of atoms, which are made up of quark particles, which in theory are made up of strings of energy; which, in theory, makes us beings of physical energy. Yeah.....that's what I thought too.... ;-)
Some experiences, in the past, are like a secure ropes; anchored life lines which prevent you from falling into a dark abyss. Some experiences, in the past, are like heavy bricks; weights which will drag you into deep dark waters, causing you to lose all you have achieved. Learn which experiences are the secure ropes and which are heavy weights, and release what needs to go.
There are few things we cannot do, with enough time, training, effort, and desire; the main emphasis being on desire. We will never do well, in that thing, which we have no desire to accomplish.