A grudge can be a terrible thing, it is not something to hold onto, attempt to train, nor to hold into remembrance; but, it is not to be compared to fairness, justice, or accountability.
I went outside for a breath and the wind tarried, but the sun glared in my eyes. Finally, a crisp, sharp gust arose, and my lungs filled in relief. I frequently forget to partake in this freedom, but I am always grateful when I do.
We often tell ourselves that condition need to be right for us to succeed; maybe, instead of waiting for right circumstances, we need to seek the right people.
If other people exist, there will always be other opinions; opinions are not facts, you have the right to have and share them, but not to force anyone to agree.
It's your history and actions which define reality, not what you or your allies perceive. If you have to say "what about" the next point should be a fact and not an opinion.
With each year that passes, memories grow fond. The bad, and the good, new friendships have spawned. We cannot turn back the clock. Doors are closed and have been locked. We must press forward, a New Year has dawned.