If you are trying to win in a relationship, or always trying to avoid conflict, then you are playing the game wrong; resolved conflict is the relationship, and both of you have to be winners.
The one great thing about your life, is that you never have to schedule anything that is already a part of it; however, you can always add in some things.
We will be remembered for how we treat others, and the things which we say to them; are your last actions, things, for which, you wish to be remembered?
The day will go, where I think that it must. The heart will follow, whom it feels to trust. That's not to say, that the day won't be bad. Nor, to say, that the heart will not be sad.